I was meditating over a list of tips and tricks that could help us improve our lives ... and i think the main trick we should have in mind is just ... try to not control anything at all. Only play on the stage of our own lives ... and even being surrounded by so, so many energy forces ... we should embrace all of them ... no matter if they are positive and negative. We should somehow dance with those energies and enjoy the dance itself, which actually means accept everything happens, even if it happens for a reason difficult to be understood now. You see, we have lots of options in life, like live in society and interact with it, no matter what that means ... live in society, but practice the solitude and avoid the interaction ... but also leave this world, go in a place where you can’t find anyone around and be just you with your inner self. For most of us, what really happens ... we live inside the society and even if we don’t want to interact with it ... we are somehow forced to do it ... to better understand the life lessons we have to learn during this life time. Trying to see this art of playing around with energies ... becomes a must and we can’t survive without it. And even if we don’t want to become artists .... it’s the only art the Universe is asking us to study. But ... connecting to people becomes many times really annoying. Indeed ... there will be times when the connection will give us joy, like in a love story or the relations we have with good friends or our children ... but there will be many, many occasions when the connections will just ... hurt us. So ... do we have a choice to decide when we should stop interacting?! Well ... being an art ... you will actually understand that in the process, using some tips and tricks that i will write about ... we can connect, disconnect and then re connect anytime we want. We should not be afraid of any kind of energy ... no matter if it is positive or negative energy ... cause all around us is just a reflectionof our own souls. You just can’t be afraid of ... you. If we see beautiful things, events and situations in our present moment ... it means we are in good spiritual shape ... on the right frequency. If we somehow totally dislike and disagree everything around us ... it means ... something is wrong inside of the inner soul. I’ve read lots of books over the years and i was also meditating a lot over the meaning of life ... and all i can say today is that the trick for a beautiful life is just embrace reality, no matter how that is. And if you want to change something ... try to change in the inner world ... not the outside world. You will never be able to change the reflection from the mirror ... if you don’t change what is in front of the mirror. The art of dancing with the energies from our lives ... can be learnt just as you learn the art of dancing. Connect with the partner ... and the music ... and synchronize all the movements ... for a beautiful dance.