Truth be told we want an over night change in our lifes. There are many moments when the actual reality is very difficult to handle and looks like we have no escape at all. We dream of a quatum jump, even if we dont understand the concept very well. In few words, the reality sucks and we dream of a life that we will never have, because deep inside us, we dont really believe we will ever meet this reality. We have a fake attitude that we are looking for change, but this attitude is just a mask for our fears... as them not to be seen. So we wonder today if there is a way of how our lifes can be changed in what we think that should be better for us. Does it exists a system that we could follow and achieve our dream life?! But it must be a simple way ... otherwise we know that we will not follow the path. Everything is happening is related to us, and everything could happen is also related to us. The magic answear, because we are looking only for magic answears, is the art of defining life. Yes ... this is an art. We need to start be honest with ourself, and all the answears to simple questions as “why am i fat?! ... because i eat to much” , “why my partner is cheating on me?! ... because i did not knew to be that perfect partner that i had to be” and the list of questions will go on. We need to start defining what we dont like. Once we undestand that the change is in our powers and if we really want a change, we will start the process of achieving the new life we dream at. We dont need to go to a therapist, we dont need to study motivational issues of social media and dont even need to read hundreds or thousands of books to start the change process. The art of defining our lifes, means that we have the courage to understand what we dont like and define very clear how our reality should look like. The depression, or what we call depression, because many things are unclear in our minds, is this huge gap between where we are now and where we want to be. We are looking for a magic bridge that should help us go very easilly from one point to the other. The process itself is a very simple one, as long as we decide to be honest to us. The art of defining ... yes ... is an art. And also to live ... is an art. Once we decide that we are brave enough to live our lifes... the dream life... the magic will happen, cause all the magic is our powers.