The real change will come only when you will accept it inside your soul ... There are so many books about change or success, that you will not have enough time to read them during this life time. Sometimes looking for a huge success that could complete our lives ... the change is just part of the script. And success indeed can’t come without the change. But what is the change?! Can you do it by yourself, or you just need special help from different people?! Or maybe the real change can come only from inside of us ... and the only real help as it to happen is to accept it ... not only want it. Accept it ... as part of your life. Imagine that many years ago ... you had been poor, but you dreamed to be rich. And one day you become rich. But the funny question is ... do you accept the fact that you became rich?! There are so many people that they were poor and then they became millionaires ... but soon after they lost everything again. So ... they re became poor again. They did not accepted the change. Could not integrate it in their life. When change comes in small steps ... is much easier to accept it as part of our new life. When change comes suddenly ... we need to change our thinking right away ... and dare to see the whole scene of life in different colors. On the paths trough life ... we get lost. We lose all our dreams, one by another ... and we also lose ourselves also. One day ... the idea of change looks illusory and we wonder why we can’t understand the fact that we are never happy anymore. For a beautiful life, no matter if you are 20, 30, 40, 50 or even 60 or 70 ... you just need a plan ... the plan for the change. But the change needs to be a positive one ... and not a collection of silly desires. And if your life is miserable today ... small changes will make almost no difference at all. The change needs to be a process of ... dreaming big no matter what happens in your actual life. But you need to visualize and accept the future ... cause the real change means the break up from your past. You will lose yourself into this process and become a new you ... but if you really want a new you ... you will accept it.