Someone once said to me ... “I don’t want to be abstract ... I want it to be real”. It was the reply at the fact that i’ve said to her that a friend of mine, that was in fact married, was loving her in an abstract way. But we all do the same ... we refuse to understand the meaning of the abstract in our lives ... or to see what is the message behind the message. And then we live the same experiences on and on and on ... and we keep wondering why ... why ... why??!! I believe today that refusing to start learning the art of understanding the abstract ... is a way of refusing to continue growing as a spiritual being. Somehow the Universe, even if we dislike it, gives us the same lesson on and on and on ... but we just can’t see that the Universe loves us ... all of us ... and tries all the time to save and help us ... to understand what we call lessons of life. The abstract is strange sometimes ... i know ... but seeing what is behind the abstract, you understand the meaning of life. So ... how should we start?! Where we should pay more attention in the events from our lives?! Well ... somehow is quite simple. Everything has a huge impact on us ... annoys us in a terrible way ... or has a repetitive character ... in there you will find the meaning of the lessons you need to study. In the end ... we can even use the slogan ... “It’s not what it looks like” ... cause probably this is the real definition of the abstract. But can we ignore the signs?! ... the lessons?! You might have moments when you could believe that ... but then the power of the message will have a stronger intensity. And will be repeat on and on and on ... and the abstract values will annoy you in a terrible way. The solution?! Maybe ... just have an opened mind and pay attention to the details. So ... we should spend life only meditating?! Sure not ... but we should keep the right balance between living and enjoying life ... and also thinking about it ... its messages and how we could grow as spiritual beings. And probably keep in mind that ... behind the abstract there is a always message.